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London gets kinky: “Kinky Boots” – dance Lola dance and don’t lose your muir cap!

Tweet         Many of you must have seen this musical already, I was waiting for special occasion, firstly tempted seeing billboards on Broadway’s buildings, then even more intrigued when the posters appeared all over London’s underground, announcing Kinky Boots’ arrival.                     So you can imagine how great was my joy was when I realised that the muir hat I sold to one of West End’s theatre was to appear in this show!   Muir cap worn by one of Lola’s angels for the boxing...

Selection of My slave’s poetry

Tweet Written by one of my favourites slaves, I found it so beautiful… POEM I “Her  chains they bite, I bleed not from my flesh but from my need I feel your touch its like a flame each moment you wish to tame I’m wild and free and still a slave I walk the road to me you gave I follow you and your desire my passion burns in last fire you put this collar on me now I beg and do and nod and bow.”       POEM II “The touch of a lash wielded by you Lets the beauty of my pain shine through Honest emotions are allowed to be free At only that point am i honestly...

Being a submissive girl… not really!

Tweet For a few months I had been delighted discovering my new self, the Dominatrix side of me.  I never had any doubts as to whether I was a Dom or a Sub but I was incredibly curious to see life from a sub’s perspective.  There was also the fact that I had read so many times that to be a good Mistress you really need to be empathetic, know your subs and understand their motivations.  This is how I came to think that the best way to understand a sub was to be one.   When I talked about it to Joanna, she agreed with me and had the great idea of introducing me to Master Alan, a very good friend of...

Summary of my weekend lessons with Mistress Lark, my Fetish Therapist.

Tweet   1) I learned that is not enough to “wanna be” something, you need to let your wish to take you and go ahead. 2) I learned that is not enough to learn something, you need to like to do it, for you could be good on it. 3) I learned that the floor of the house of Mistress Lark is not a bad place to sleep. 4) I learned that Mistress Lark is a Dominant Mistress and a natural team leader. 5) I learned that even to be a sub you need to have a healthy mind. 6) I learned that is not enough make a lot of miles to realize your fantasies if your life is a nightmare and you are lost. 7) I learned...

24/7 Perfect Slave – Thoughts From Overseas…

Tweet I popped recently into interesting post about perfect full time slave. It seems that me and Mistress Milliscent share very similar view on how the servitude should look: “I think that a slave’s time should be kept full. A slave living with me could expect to have his or her days filled with work for me. Not meaningless works like scrubbing a bathroom with a toothbrush, while such work might be delightful, it isn’t really work, and would be a reward for a slave not a service to his or her owner. Meaningful work is what I would expect, work that improved my life and my household....

Letter From One Of My Slaves After The Night At Club Subversion

Tweet Hello Mistress Joanna Lark I just wanted to say thank you for allowing me to serve you and your friend Mistress Anath at Club Subversion last night. I hope you both had a good time and that i was of some use to both of you. Although i have been going occasionally to fet clubs for a while i am still a bit ‘wet behind the ears’ when it comes to being a sub. i really appreciate your time and the efforts you made last night to make me a better slave. I can be quite erratic especially in clubs which is why I almost need a Mistress to keep me in check! I learnt a bit more about myself...

To kink or not to kink?

Tweet Well – it depends where you are based. If you go to Denmark, Sweden and now even to Norway you can enjoy kinky lifestyle without a fear of being taken to the mental care. You can even act like a kinky idiot from the Lars von Trier drama. Do you know why? Read more about  Ms Slide’s latest...