Are You Gagging For It? Countess De Jager Tells You How To Do It…

Are you paraphilic?

The fetishizing of particular or scenarios is also referred to as paraphilia. We will be talking about different types of fetish, and there will be plenty to discuss as it is possible to fetishize virtually anything…

In this article Countess De Jager introduces us to one of the most popular bondage toys – She will be discussing the play and pleasure of ‘Gags’.

“You may have seen ‘Pulp Fiction’ in it there’s a scene where a man plays a ‘Gimp’
Though a ball gag was used it was not used in sexual play. I have found that a lot of vanilla people automatically think of that film and that scene when any talk about ball gags is introduced. It’s a misconception that gags are for pain and to disturb the wearer and those around them. I have found that a gag, if used in the right way can involve sexual arousal and gratification towards sexual behavior by consenting adults.

The First Rule Of Gags

Whatever type of gag you go for, there’s one fundamental rule to using gags – never leave anyone alone while gagged. No matter how much of a gap around it there may be, even if you’re just using a ball gag, you’re interfering with someone’s breathing and things can go wrong the moment your back is turned. Always make sure you’re watching anyone you have gagged.

Safe words

A common question with gags is how do you safe word? Just because someone can not speak, does not mean they can not signal. You use clicking fingers. If you can’t click your fingers try: stamping feet; shaking heads; basically anything you can think of that works for you, just like normal safe word.

There are a several types of gags on the market and some can be found at Joanna Lark’s bondage store.

Ball Gag

It’s one of the most recognized of all gags. The ball is strapped into the mouth behind the teeth, with the straps going around the head to secure it in place I have seen many sizes and have used most at some point. It’s not made to totally keep the user quite. It’s made to humiliate, disgrace and subject the user to the feeling of dis-empowerment. Should the user try to talk – excessive amounts of dribbling will occur. The fastenings can be made from a manner of materials eg: leather with buckles, PVC with Velcro, nylon straps with either buckles or Velcro and latex. The head straps can be fixed round the head with one or two straps. Also fully cover the head as head harness

 A wiffle gag is good for someone with asthma. The ball in a wiffle gag has holes in like the type of balls you had when playing games indoors as a kid. I have myself used most of the ball gags there are, on slaves. I must admit I do like to see them drool(*!) Always be safe when using gags. Laying slaves down with a ball gags isn’t good for any long period. If the slave has a cold I would suggest not to use one at all as the blocked nose my prevent breathing.

Ring Gag

This gag is mostly used in forced oral because of the opening hollow ring. Either by master on his female slave or in forced bi session by a Dominatrix. Some gags are adjustable to accommodate the size of phallus. I have used them in water sports, with or without funnel and while spitting into slaves mouth. Again these can be made to make user drool a lot. People with asthma can happily use this one.

Penis Gag 

I have this one and find it useful if the slave doesn’t like ball gags. I find it funny when I see their faces and come towards them with a small penis, specially if they are not into forced bi. It has a tendency you keep the tongue down and mumblings are kept to a minimum. They don’t drool as much.

 Bite Gag 

 This gag is normally associated with pony play. The bit that goes in the mouth is usually made from silicon can be found in rubber, leather and plastic. I have known some Dommes to use a metal one like real horses. I would not recommend this as horses teeth grow when chipped ours don’t. Once the bit is in place you can attach a bridle and rains, sit and have some fun. You don’t have to be out in a field to play horse and rider. With crop in one hand and rains in other of we crawled to the bar in my club, then to the smoking area for a needed cigarette, used a slave ashtray and then back in to stop at my chair and play with another slave. I did enjoy that. Must do it again sometime.

 

 

Scolds Bridle

I had this made for me. It was really used back in medieval times. Please look it up – here  – it’s a short write up and I could not do it justice.

I use mine as much as the clients let me. I really like using it. They look so helpless and sad. I think about all those women years ago that had to put up with this form of punishment and torment, not to mention pain and ridicule. Now I can do it to men…lol This form of gag does not make them choke or drool. I have 3 different size tongue plates made from silicone. You can fix it to the suspension from ring on top and the fix hands in cuffs to it to as it has 4 rings on it.

Mouth stuffing

Simply covering the mouth with a cloth or tape ( gaffer, Duck or bondage) most people can still just about talk through that. The problem is that the tongue is still free to talk. The obvious next step is to stuff something into the mouth which disables the tongue and then tape over.

The great thing about this style of gag is that you can use almost anything (anything that’s safe to put in to a mouth). The obvious ones are a handkerchief or underwear (clean/used, it is up to you) but you are free to be more imaginative too(*!).
As the mouth is obstructed, you need to be very careful with breathing. Even more as there’s the risk of whatever you have stuffed with will move in to the throat and could cause choking. I suggest you don’t lay sub down when using this form of gag.
If you are using tape to secure the gag, you need to take some basic precautions: is the tape going to come off again? Some tapes are much easier to remove than others. Is it going to do anything nasty to the skin? Micropore tape, used to secure dressings is a good choice to avoid problems. Is the glue on the tape toxic? If you’ve got it over a mouth, you do not want to find the adhesive is going to make your sub ill. And finally, does your sub have any hairs near their lips? If they do, it will hurt coming off, though that may be fun.

Leather Head Harness With Penis Gag And External Dildo

I have this. I never use it on my slaves or clients as I would never wear it to penetrate them in anal play. I do however have my partner use it on me. Loli (my sissy cuckold) is not allowed to use his penis in me, as he is a sissy girl and not a boy. I milk him to release the boy jizz. If I have gone to long without sexual intercourse I get the “face fuck” out and I enjoy this better than a toy-boy. I always manage to have a climax with one of these as I can control where I want it to go and with hand on head can control how fast or slow I want it. I’m sure you can get ones that vibrate but, this is better than a “rabbit” I would recommend this to most Dommes or any woman out there that would like to have sexual intercourse with their man but wants him to feel inadequate, great form of humiliation too…lol
This can also be used in forced bi scenes to.

Useful tips:

  • Drool: To make a slave dribble/drool more. Pull on bottom lip or place a peg on it. Make sure you give them a bib as once it starts it does not stop…lol
  • Stuffing face: Use cotton wool sends some over the edge as it squeaks on the teeth.

If you have any question regarding gags ask here or email me at mistress-countess-de-jager@hotmail.com

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